I think it’s fair to say that 2016 has been a f*cking epic year for me. There’s a saying I love - “The extent to which you feel your pain, is the extent to which you feel your pleasure” … I feel like this was my slogan both personally & professionally in 2016.
There were extreme highs, and there were extreme lows. There was extreme pain, and extreme pleasure. All-in-all I believe this year has been by far one of the best in my life (and that’s a BIG call, ‘cos my life has been pretty damn good).
This year I pushed my boundaries in all ways possible; I surrounded myself with powerful, inspiring leaders in the area of sexuality & Tantra, I attended a myriad of workshops and events so that I could expand myself both personally and professionally, and I feel I truly experienced ecstasy and pleasure like never before.
So, I’ve put together a list of my 2016 highlights … here’s hoping my own personal experiences and sexual journey will inspire others to explore sexuality, ecstasy and orgasm on a deeper level in 2017.
Kundalini Tantra Training in Bali
This was a solo adventure to North Bali where I spent ten days immersing myself in the teachings of Kundalini Tantra with ELIYAH. These ten days were life-changing … I connected with a beautiful group of amazing people from all walks of life, I experienced the power of Kundalini energy running through my body … I enjoyed ecstatic moments of orgasmic bliss, coupled with the release of deep pain I had been harbouring for years. I faced my anger and I alchemised it into power. I arrived home within myself. I returned from Bali as a Kundalini Tantra practitioner and this in itself has transformed my practice as a Sexologist.
Learn more about Tantra & Sex at my upcoming SEX, POWER & PURPOSE two-day workshop March 18 - 19th, 2017.
Ecstatic Orgasm with Eyal Matsliah
At the start of December I hosted the Power Of Tantra retreat with facilitators Eyal Matsliah & Chantelle Boscarello. My whole life I have been addicted to clitoral orgasms … knowing there was more to sex than the ‘genital sneeze’, my intention for the retreat was to experience more pleasure in my body. And holy hell, I got what I asked for.
On day 5 of the retreat, Eyal guided me through a solo process whereby I accessed a deep and powerful orgasmic state that lasted over an hour. Whole body orgasms filled my body, the waves were incredibly pleasurable and ecstatic, and the experience took my heart & consciousness to a place where I felt like I was connecting to Universal Source. This incredibly ecstatic experience completely changed the way I view and experience orgasm and ever since then I have felt deep orgasmic pleasure on a daily basis. I’m eternally grateful for Eyal, and eternally grateful for my immense orgasmic potential.
Conscious Sensuality Temple Night
Feeling the pull to explore sexuality and sensuality in a safe space with other conscious people, I took myself to the Conscious Sensuality Temple night in Byron Bay. The space was beautiful - we began with a guided meditation, exercises that involved consent, conscious communication and touch, a beautiful cacao ceremony, & sensual dance. The evening was a unique opportunity to connect intimately with others in an environment that allowed for sex & intimacy to unfold openly and naturally in a safe container. The evening was beautiful & ecstatic, I embraced my sacred slut, my sexuality, and my yearning for intimacy with more than one person in the room.
Experience a Temple Night at the Taste Of Love Festival in Byron Bay January 20 - 22nd, 2017.
Yoniverse Workshop with Bonnie Bliss & Elise Savaresse
The Yoniverse is a workshop for women about all-things Yoni/pussy. This workshop was incredibly juicy and informative … Bonnie & Elise are two extremely powerful women who shared openly and honestly about their relationship to their own pussies. The whole day was an eye-opener … my favourite part being the sacred honouring ritual at the end, and the beautiful opportunity to view a real-life cervix inside a real-life woman. Since the workshop I have practiced intimate and loving massage on myself more regularly and feel more love for my pussy than ever before. This is a great workshop for women who wish to deepen their understanding of the female anatomy & get in touch with their innate pussy power.
I admit I was always a little suspicious of crystals dildos … not sure why, but I was. Anyhow, wanting to move away from fake plastic dildos and vibrators, I bought myself a rose quartz ‘pleasure wand’ midway through the year, and wow, I’ve never looked back. The healing energy of the crystals, combined with the fact they are completely natural and feel amazing inside my pussy, have led to me experiencing whole new levels of pleasure. I’ve been so blown away by crystal pleasure wands that I am now stocking them on my website SHOP. Spoil yourself with a beautiful crystal pleasure wand here.
Yes, you heard right, ‘Zen Spanking’. Sounds interesting, doesn’t it. Always prone to loving domination and anything remotely ‘out of the box’, I was intrigued … being the lucky woman that I am, I got to experience it first hand (pardon the pun) and it’s safe to say, I’m officially a convert.
Learn more about Zen Spanking and experience it for yourself at the Taste Of Love Festival in Byron Bay January 20 - 22nd, 2017.
Sacred & Ecstatic Dance
This year dance has completely changed my life. I attended the Dancing Eros 6 week dance course, I went to ecstatic dance and five rhythms dance regularly. I began dance as a daily practice at home. I held a sacred slut dance party at my house. I’m now launching TANTRIC DANCE workshops in 2017. Find out all the details on my website.
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