There’s a myth in our culture that sex always begins with foreplay, and ends with vaginal/anal penetration and orgasm (aka the ‘Genital Sneeze’). And hey, I’m definitely not against that particular style of one-off sex with someone I’ve just met. But there’s another style of sex that seems to fly under the radar, the kind of sex that blows your f*cking mind and takes your consciousness to places you’ve never been before … I like to think of it as energetic, non-penetrative eye-fucking … with someone you don’t know … but feel like you’ve known all your life.
For those of you who have never experienced eye-fucking with a stranger, it goes a little something like this: firstly, you and your eye-fucking partner instantly feel that ‘something’ that draws you to each other … it’s like a magnetic sexual cosmic pull that’s intense from the moment you meet. The sexual chemistry is unashamedly there in all it’s glory and the energy between you both is like a bomb exploding inside your mind and body. Oh, and I refer to the connection as ‘cosmic’, because often it’s not always just your sex centre speaking, it’s your heart and your consciousness saying a ‘holy f*ck yes, yes, yes’ to that person.
So you meet with your eyes, and instantly the charge is there. It’s a deep knowing, there’s no need for words or introductions … it’s a magical something that occurs when your eyes connect and you know that you want each other. And so the dance begins. The energy magically shifts and you connect and f*ck … solely with your eyes and your breathing. No touching, no penetration … just eye gazing, breathing deeply and energetically exchanging sexual energy.
Some of you reading this will know exactly what I’m speaking of, and others may thinking I’m on a different planet. But eye-fucking is a real thing, I promise. I know, because I’ve experienced it, and it’s by far one of the most powerful and transformative sexual experiences I’ve ever had … and the best part of it is I’ve literally eye-f*cked my way to orgasm, with no touching at all.
So, how do you experience the power of eye-fucking with a stranger? Well, it’s definitely not something you can plan … I believe that if it’s meant to happen, the Universe will move mountains to bring you into presence with your ideal eye-fucking partner … and from there it’s over to you both to experience. My only tip is that you don’t resist it if it happens … allow yourself to fully feel into the sensation, trust the power of your eyes and breath, and remember you may never see this person again, so make the most of the powerful moment together.
* This article was originally published on MOJOCO
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