Posts in Season 9
Podcast Episode 195: Your Fantasies Are Trying to Tell You Something - Decoding the Inner Erotic World

This episode is all about dismantling the stigma around fantasies. I often find that so many of us, especially women, are walking around carrying shame about what turns us on. I share why I believe our fantasies actually inform us about our erotic selves, and how, if we can tap into that, it allows us to feel more alive in our bodies. Our fantasies are not a confession, they’re a conversation.

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Season 9Juliet Allen
Podcast Episode 194: Rapid Fire Q&A with Juliet

In this episode, I’m answering a series of recent community questions in a rapid-fire Q&A format, sharing honest reflections from both my personal and professional experience.

We explore topics including:

  • Erotic connection in long-distance relationships

  • Moving out of victimhood and a victim mindset

  • Navigating mismatched libido in relationships

  • Shifting from pressure to excitement in intimacy

  • Building a successful online business and showing up authentically

  • Reflections from my own relationships, experiences, and learnings along the way

…and so much more.

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Podcast Episode 193: Why I Left Polyamory and Chose Monogamy

For a couple of years, I explored non-monogamy, open relating, and the world of polyamory believing it aligned with freedom, truth, and conscious love. And in many ways, it taught me so much. But over time, something deeper began to shift inside me.

In this episode, I’m sharing the real reasons I chose to leave polyamory and why I now consciously choose monogamy in my relationship and life. This isn’t about right or wrong, judgement, or telling anyone how they should love - it’s simply my honest experience of what intimacy, devotion, safety, polarity, and emotional depth have come to mean to me as I’ve evolved.

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Podcast Episode 192: You’re Not ‘Just a Mum’ - Reclaiming Your Lover Identity

In this episode, I explore the identity shift that happens in motherhood, why so many women feel disconnected from their bodies, desire, and sense of self, and the deeper truth behind it all - nothing is actually wrong with you. This is a conversation about coming back to yourself, reclaiming your sensuality, and remembering that you are not just a mother… you are a woman, a lover, a whole human being.

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Podcast Episode 191: A Personal Update… and How Do We Stay Feminine in the Chaos of Work & Motherhood?

Life has been full… work, motherhood, responsibility - all the things. In this episode, I share a personal update and answer a question from my community: how do I stay connected to my feminine when I’m doing so much as a mother and career woman?

I open up about what I’m navigating behind the scenes - the balance between doing and being - and how I stay connected to my feminine without letting resentment build.

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Podcast Episode 190: You’ve Been Lied To About What’s Sexy (The Truth About Ageing)

You’ve been lied to about what’s sexy. In this episode, I unpack one of the biggest myths women have been sold - that youth equals sex appeal.

I share my own experience of navigating ageing, the identity shifts that came with it, and why I feel more confident, grounded, and sexy now than I did in my 20s and 30s.

We talk about embodiment and what actually creates magnetism in a woman. Because real sexiness isn’t something you lose with age… it’s something you deepen into.

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Podcast Episode 189: When You Want Sex More Than Him (Let’s Talk About It)

What happens when you want sex more than your partner?

This is something so many women experience… but almost no one talks about. In this episode, I’m breaking down the truth about mismatched desire - specifically when you’re the one with the higher sex drive - and why this dynamic can feel so confusing, triggering, and even confronting.

We explore how to stop taking it personally, what might actually be going on for him, and how to navigate this in a way that creates deeper connection… not more pressure.

Because this isn’t just about sex. It’s about communication, polarity, self-worth, and how you relate to desire in your life as a whole.

If you’ve ever felt rejected, frustrated, or unsure how to handle this dynamic… this episode is for you.

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Podcast Episode 188: 7 Things That Took My Sex Life From Average to Ecstatic

In this episode, I share a personal reflection on the inner work that transformed my experience of intimacy from something average and predictable into something alive, expansive, and truly fulfilling. This isn’t about quick tips or surface-level techniques - it’s about the deeper layers most people avoid. The emotional honesty, the willingness to look at your patterns, and the courage to shift how you relate to yourself and others. If you’ve ever felt like something is missing in your sex life, or that you’re capable of more depth, connection, and aliveness than what you’re currently experiencing, this conversation will open your eyes to what’s actually required to get there!

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Podcast Episode 186: The Ritual of Self Pleasure (and How to Use The Juliet Pleasure Wand™)

In this new episode, I’m opening a conversation about something many women are curious about but rarely taught properly - self-pleasure. I share why self-pleasure is such an important practice for women, not just for orgasm, but for connection with your body, nervous system regulation, confidence, and sexual self-awareness. Inside the episode I talk about:

• Why self-pleasure matters for women’s intimacy and relationship with others

• How to approach self-pleasure in a more mindful, embodied way

• My personal self-pleasure ritual and how I create space for it

• How to explore sensation slowly rather than rushing to the finish line

• How to use The Juliet Pleasure Wand as a tool for deeper sensation and body awareness

This episode is for women who feel curious about exploring their own pleasure, reconnecting with their bodies, and learning how to create a more intentional self-pleasure practice. Whether you’re completely new to self-pleasure or simply want to deepen the way you experience it, this conversation will give you a gentle, empowering place to begin.

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Podcast Episode 185: Why Your Relationship Keeps Feeling "Off": The Hidden Key to Sustainable, Secure Love

In this episode, Juliet explores why so many relationship struggles aren’t about communication or chemistry - they’re about core values. She breaks down what core values really are, how they shape your standards and sense of safety, and why ignoring them slowly erodes self-trust. When your values are dishonoured, resentment builds. When they’re honoured, you feel steady, clear, and aligned. Juliet shares how to identify your true values (not the ones that sound good, but the ones that feel right in your body) and explains why chemistry creates spark, but values create sustainability. This episode is a powerful invitation to stop overriding yourself - and start building love from a foundation that actually fits.

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Podcast Episode 184: Q&A: Sexual Fantasies About an Ex: What It Really Means

In this episode of Authentic Sex, I explore a question so many people quietly carry: If my deepest sexual fantasies are still about my ex… does that mean I’m not over them? We unpack the difference between love and erotic imprinting, why the nervous system can cling to peak sexual experiences, and how unfinished emotional energy can keep someone alive in your fantasy world long after the relationship has ended. I also dive into what it means when you meet incredible new partners - yet your body still responds most powerfully to one person from your past. Is it unresolved attachment? Is it chemistry? Or is it something deeper about your erotic template? This episode will help you untangle fantasy from reality, understand your sexual wiring on a more conscious level, and begin expanding your capacity for deeper, more embodied intimacy moving forward.

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