4 Books That Will Change Your Sex Life


As a sexologist, I have a bookcase full of sex-related books that I regularly re-read for inspiration and education. Reading is a fantastic way to self-educate, which is essential if you want a plentiful and pleasurable sex life. If you’re in a relationship, reading about sex can open up a healthy discussion about sex with your partner, and is a sure fire way to spice up your sex life. If you’re single, there is no better time than now to begin empowering yourself as a sexual being. Reading about sex is bound to attract amazing sexual experiences into your life, and there’s nothing better than a well educated and confident lover!

The following is a list of 4 books that have something for everyone. I can almost guarantee that if you read them you will learn something new and feel inspired to live a life full of amazing and plentiful sex.

#1 Women On Top - Nancy Friday

This ground-breaking bestseller changed my life as a young woman. Women On Top is about the erotic imaginations of women from all over the world. The concept of women as well-behaved ‘nice girls’ is challenged and the book instead reveals a myriad of sexual fantasies, written by real life women. I guarantee this book will deliver some wonderful new ideas and is very inclusive of the LGBT community.

#2 Wild Nights - David Deida

Wild Nights is the tale of a spiritual man, Mykonos, who reveals his erotic path to the divine. This book was a life-changer for me as it opened my mind to the possibility of sex being the path to ecstasy. Deida very eloquently writes about hard-core sex and spirituality as one, he even turns the concept of group sex into a spiritual practice!

#3 Sex For One - Betty Dodson

Confronting the taboo topic of masturbation, sex expert Betty Dodson take the shame out of self-love by demonstrating how any women can learn to self pleasure without shame and guilt. This is a must-read for any woman who wants to learn more about how to increase their capacity for self-pleasure and orgasm. 

#4 The Secret Practices of Quodoushka - Amara Charles

The Secret Practice of Quodoushka is based on ancient Mayan teachings and offers practical guidance on sex, intimacy and relationships. Have you ever wondered how to reach higher levels of orgasm and sexual ecstasy? If you have, this is the book for you.