6 Essential Oils for Sensuality, Sexuality & Libido


Over the past few months essential oils have become a huge part of my everyday life, including my sex life. I use the oils in a hot bath, in a diffuser in my bedroom, on my skin as perfume, and in coconut oil as a massage oil and daily moisturiser. I can honestly say the oils have taken my sensual and sexual life to a whole new level of ecstasy!

Here’s the top 6 oils that I’m using on a daily basis:

Ylang Ylang

Ylang Ylang is known to elevate sexual energy and increase libido … it is also a powerful aphrodisiac. Mmmmmmm … I love the scent of this beautiful oil. Use Ylang Ylang in a diffuser in your bedroom, or simply add a couple of drops to coconut oil and enjoy the aroma whilst massaging yourself or your lover.

Ylang Ylang is also great for the heart chakra and encourages playfulness, freedom and joy. I use this oil on my heart chakra as a daily perfume and add it to my diffuser in my bedroom to create a sensual and sexual space for love-making.


Geranium oil has a harmonising affect on the mind and emotions and is known to elevate happiness, love and trust. It’s a powerful oil to use during intimacy and sex because it harmonises the energy in the room and creates a beautiful space for sensuality, intimacy and deep connection.

Geranium Oil is for the heart Chakra and is great for self-love, emotional healing and forgiveness. This oil also promotes connection and grounding in our body and is great to help boost body confidence during sex.

Clary Sage

Clary Sage helps increase sexual desire by decreasing inhibitions, arousing emotions and boosting libido. If you’re looking for some creativity and spice in the bedroom, Clary Sage is perfect.

Clary Sage is also powerful in regulating and balancing hormones in women and great to use during menstruation to ease cramping and mood imbalances.

Blend with Lavender oil in a hot bath to create a sensual and relaxing pre-sex soak with your lover. 

White Fir

White Fir is a grounding oil that is known as the oil for generational healing. This oil helps clear old beliefs that keep us stuck from moving forward as empowered sexual beings. 

Mix this oil with Ylang Ylang and/or Wild Orange to create a beautiful and uplifting blend that will increase vitality, intimacy and libido.

Wild Orange

Wild Orange is fresh and uplifting and creates joy, abundance and flow! This oil is renowned for bringing a buzz to the sacral chakra to enhance abundance and creativity and move stagnant or stuck sexual energy. If you want to increase energy levels in the bedroom and get the juices flowing I recommend adding a drop of this oil to your diffuser and noticing the subtle affect it has on the energy levels in the room.


Lavender reduces anxiety and promotes relaxation and sexual excitement. It is also the oil for communication, so using this will help increase ease around communication and expression of sexual needs and desires. This oil is renowned for creating a calming and safe space for lovers to enjoy deep intimacy and orgasmic states.

Blend Lavender with wild orange to create a beautiful vibe joyful, relaxed love-making.

If you want to start exploring using essential oils to awaken more of your sensuality and sexuality, reach out and I can help get you started with my personal recommendations. 

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