Posts tagged relationship
Torn Between Two Genders: Why Bisexuality Is Threatening My Relationship

I’ve been in a committed relationship with my beautiful fiancé for 4 years. When we met and began dating I never expected us to one-day be engaged to marry…and yet here I am, planning a lifetime together with another woman. 

From the outside, our relationship appears to be a magical gay fairytale: two beautiful women fall in love and live happily-ever-after with daughter and dog. In reality, it’s not always that straight-forward, in fact our relationship goes through major ups and downs, just like any other couple.

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Why Sex & Intimacy Are Good For Business

Ever feel so wrapped up and passionate about your business that its a challenge to find time for your relationship and sex life?  Feel like you are torn between two lovers, so to speak? Successfully balancing business and pleasure is an art form that requires patience, passion, communication and great health 

Its no secret that sex is great for your physical and mental, health and wellbeing. Regular, healthy sex is fun, pleasurable and creates a unique opportunity to experience intimacy and connection with your partner. But what happens when business is busy and your fast-paced entrepreneurial lifestyle zaps you of any energy left to be intimate at the end of the day?

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3 Mistakes Control Freaks Make in Relationships

You can control the things you do on a daily basis and control most aspects of your life, but the one thing you can’t control is other people. I am the first to admit that I am a control freak. I am constantly reminded of this when in relationship with others and over the years I have learnt to strangely love this part of myself. But as much as I can embrace my controlling personality, I know that it’s unhealthy to want to control my partner, and so I avoid doing this at all costs. The fact is, being a control freak in a relationship is not healthy, and is often detrimental in long term relationships.

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You Are Not Responsible For Your Partner's Orgasm

Many people assume that great sex should magically arrive on our doorstep (think knight-in-shining-armour/fairytale princess ready to jump into bed with us for hours)…but it doesn’t always turn out that way. In fact, most sexual relationships take a while to warm up and require time and presence if they are going to be pleasurable for BOTH parties. Getting to know your partner’s body, sexual responses, emotions and likes/dislikes is an art form…and one worth pursuing. 

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When Stress Overtakes Sex

We all know what it’s like when life gets stressful…our emotional and physical health takes a dive and before long we find ourselves feeling like crap. All of us at some stage in life will experience major life events that increase our stress levels - illness, death of loved ones, work stress, sleepless nights with kids, failed friendships, broken hearts. The fact of the matter is that stress affects all areas of our lives, and often times, it ends up affecting our sex life. 

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How To Keep The Woman You Love

It seems that in today’s day and age, there is a unique art to keeping a loving relationship alive and well. The rates of divorce are always on the rise and there is an epidemic of unhappy couples and failed long-term relationships. If I held the key to keeping the spark alive, then I’d be one happy and wealthy sexologist. Unfortunately though, every individual relationship has its own unique challenges, and there is no quick fix for a once happy (and now falling-to-bits) couple.

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Stop Faking Orgasms

Betty & Carlin chat about how important it is to figure out what turns you on and take the matter into your own hands (literally). This discussion is very much about sex between a woman and a man but, if you're in a same-sex relationship, it still applies and can be adapted to sex between two women. Either way, it's super important that you tell your partner what you want, how you want it, and where you want it.

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Play More, Worry Less: How To Make Sex More Fun

Sex is supposed to be a fun, playful and pleasurable activity, right? Unfortunately sex is often associated with worry, anxiety and concern and many people are left wondering how they can make sex a more fun and enjoyable experience.  With this in mind, I have come up with simple advice on how you can play more and worry less in the bedroom.

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