Orgasm

6 ways to unlock your full orgasmic potential.

How to experience full-body orgasm in 3 simple steps.

Crystal pleasure wands often bring more satisfaction than regular sex toys for several reasons.

Plugs provide a safe way to venture into new sexual territory

Curious about anal play and its orgasmic potential?

Anything is possible, and an upgrade might be just around the corner if you're experiencing any of these signs…

7 Steps to enhancing pleasure with a lover

Are you ready to elevate your intimate experiences and bring more sacred and mindful energy into the bedroom? Of course, you are!

Unveiling ecstatic pleasure through presence, breath and beyond!

Embracing Pleasure Beyond Orgasm.

Experience pleasure beyond intercourse!

As a sexologist and relationship coach, I'm often asked about masturbation in relationships, and I've noticed there's a lot of confusion and stigma around this topic. So let’s explore this!

The ultimate guide to igniting passion, intimacy, and sexual connection

Unleashing your sexual confidence through communication and exploration

Mastering the technique for enhanced pleasure ;)

Hands up if you're ready to experience the elusive multiple orgasm.

Listen & Learn! And then go practice 😉 You can find all these episodes on my website, or listen on iTunes, Spotify & Soundcloud.

A few hot tips to increase the spice barometer.

At some stage in our lives we will all encounter a sex life that seems to have taken a turn for the worse. Long term relationships always go through their ups and downs and, more often than not, couples find themselves bored and uninspired by their sex life. It’s time to shake things up and add some spice to your life! Here are 5 realistic ways that you can spice up your sex life today:

These days it’s easy to get caught up in the ‘rights’ and ‘wrongs’ of orgasm and pleasure. There is so much advice flying about on the internet that both women and men are often left wondering how the hell they can best please themselves and their partners. Female orgasm in particular is portrayed as a mysterious and personal experience and there are definitely some common orgasm myths that need to be debunked.

Giving oral sex to a woman is an art form.  It’s an art form that requires practice as it seems there are very few people who get it right (and enjoy it) the first time.  Before I get into the nitty gritty of how to pleasure a woman with your mouth, it’s important to first acknowledge the elephant in the room; some people hate giving oral sex, and that’s ok.  I do hope that for those of you who don’t enjoy the art of licking and kissing a woman’s pussy that this article may inspire you to think again, and perhaps open your mind to the possibility that going down on a woman can be as pleasurable for you as it is for the woman herself.

Let’s break down this magical organ and how to pleasure it.

It seems there are a few damaging myths surrounding masturbation that need to be cleared up. The first myth is ‘If my partner masturbates, it means our sex life is inadequate’ and the second myth is ‘Masturbating means I won’t want sex with my partner because I will be ‘orgasmed out’.’ News flash; both of these myths are not true, in fact masturbation is a healthy and normal part of life and is a positive addition to any romantic relationship.

Many clients come to me and report that sex is boring … it’s quick and very orgasm focussed and there’s something missing. Often my clients can’t pinpoint what is missing, but they know that there must be more to sex than what they’re experiencing. That something is the connection and intimacy that they unconsciously desire with their partner/lover and they don't know it's missing because they've never experienced it before.

For those of you who have never experienced eye-fucking with a stranger, it goes a little something like this: firstly, you and your eye-fucking partner instantly feel that ‘something’ that draws you to each other … it’s like a magnetic sexual cosmic pull that’s intense from the moment you meet. The sexual chemistry is unashamedly there in all it’s glory and the energy between you both is like a bomb exploding inside your mind and body. Oh, and I refer to the connection as ‘cosmic’, because often it’s not always just your sex centre speaking, it’s your heart and your consciousness saying a ‘holy f*ck yes, yes, yes’ to that person.

Is Tantric sex a ‘thing’ for women who have sex with women? How can we have deeper intimacy and ecstatic sex on a regular basis? My sex life with my woman is stale, how can I bring back the excitement? Every week I get questions from women who have sex with women about how they can experience better, more connected sex (on a regular basis). I myself have explored the world of Tantra with a female lover, and so I’m here to impart some secrets I’ve learnt along the way about Tantric lesbian sex.

In my opinion, amazing sex can always feel even more amazing when you're met with an amazing playlist to fuck to. So, here's my top three playlists, ripe and ready for Summer.