Posts tagged partner sex
Anal Sex Myths {De-Bunked}

It seems there are a lot of myths surrounding the topic of anal sex; it’s painful, men want it more than us women, women who love it are dirty. The list goes on and on, which leads to a misconception that the only people who love it are men having sex with men, and this couldn’t be further from the truth.

Anal sex is still somewhat of a taboo topic in mainstream conversation and, as far as I’m concerned, it’s not talked about enough. Which brings me to 5 anal sex myths (de-bunked):

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Torn Between Two Genders: Why Bisexuality Is Threatening My Relationship

I’ve been in a committed relationship with my beautiful fiancé for 4 years. When we met and began dating I never expected us to one-day be engaged to marry…and yet here I am, planning a lifetime together with another woman. 

From the outside, our relationship appears to be a magical gay fairytale: two beautiful women fall in love and live happily-ever-after with daughter and dog. In reality, it’s not always that straight-forward, in fact our relationship goes through major ups and downs, just like any other couple.

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Let's Talk About Lube

Ok Ladies and Gents, it’s time to talk about lube.  Yes, LUBE.  In my opinion lube, if using a good one and using it correctly, it can be a girl’s, and guy’s, best friend.

But I don’t need lubeeeeeeeeee”, I hear you scream.  Yeah well, here’s the thing; don’t knock it ‘til you’ve tried it because let’s face it, sometimes you need a little ‘kickstart’ down there to get things moving.  OR sometimes you don’t even want to get moving and believe it or not, a magic squirt of lube might be just the thing you’re needing to get you in the mood.

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Where Can I Find Great Porn?

“Where can I find great porn?” - I get this question all the time from friends and female clients and the truth is, I’ve never really had the perfect site to point people to. Firstly, we all get off on different stuff, so it’s hard for me to assume that just because like a certain type of porn, other people will like it too. Secondly, sifting through millions of porn sites in order to find a good one is goddamn time consuming and, after a while, it all looks (and sounds) the same.

Most mainstream porn is often produced by men, for men. Heterosexual porn is very much focused on pleasuring the male, and often gives a distorted view of sexuality, intimacy and human relations. Many women I speak with ask for porn recommendations that are suited more for the female gaze… porn that’s all about pleasuring the female and features real-life women enjoying pleasurable and realistic intimacy and sex.

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Stop Faking Orgasms

Betty & Carlin chat about how important it is to figure out what turns you on and take the matter into your own hands (literally). This discussion is very much about sex between a woman and a man but, if you're in a same-sex relationship, it still applies and can be adapted to sex between two women. Either way, it's super important that you tell your partner what you want, how you want it, and where you want it.

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I Give Good Head: A Guide To Pleasuring Women With Your Mouth

Giving oral sex to a woman is an art form.  It’s an art form that requires practice as it seems there are very few people who get it right (and enjoy it) the first time.  Before I get into the nitty gritty of how to pleasure a woman with your mouth, it’s important to first acknowledge the elephant in the room; some people hate giving oral sex, and that’s ok.  I do hope that for those of you who don’t enjoy the art of licking and kissing a woman’s pussy that this article may inspire you to think again, and perhaps open your mind to the possibility that going down on a woman can be as pleasurable for you as it is for the woman herself.

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Sensate Body Focus: Renew Your Sex Life

Sensate Body Focus was developed by pioneering sex researchers, Dr William Masters and Virginia Johnson and was originally designed to help lovers overcome challenges such as performance anxiety, lack of desire, erectile dysfunction, rapid ejaculation and lack of orgasm. Challenges aside, Sensate Focus is now used as a powerful practice that encourages a deeper connection and intimacy between lovers.

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